Day 191: Too much to ask?

So huge bummer. Mr. O may not be coming today! He's having a super crappy day at work, putting in extra hours and likely not getting done til late this afternoon. He called to fill me in, and the moment he said "I don't think I'm going to come tonight" I felt so disappointed! I was almost a little surprised at how disappointed I was! So, I can completely understand not wanting to make the drive after a long, crappy day at work, but if I don't see him tonight, I don't see him again for another week. Is it too much to ask him to try and come? To tell him how much it would mean to me? I'm trying to sweeten the deal by promising dinner, beer and a movie night in when he gets here, but really, I just want to spend time with him...do I have a right to ask? Is that stepping over a line? And, do I really want to the answer if it's a firm "no, I'm not coming?" So, now I'm disappointed and anxious that he would say no IF I asked...yet still holding out the hope that all will turn around and he'll call me on the road to Lancaster. Good grief, Linds, stop worrying! If I don't get to see him, I'll survive. There's always next weekend, silly. :)